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December, 2025

Who's This Loki, Anyway? - Gýgratrú Blog

Liberman indicates that calling Loki a trickster is too reductive: he does not behave as tricksters typically do in other folklore. Instead, think of him as a "literary instrument," whose presence and involvement serve to underscore the characteristics of the other gods.

Vine Deloria Jr. - Wikiquote

"Misattributed

Religion is for people who’re afraid of going to hell. Spirituality is for those who’ve already been there.
    Commonly attributed to Deloria on the internet, or sometimes to a few others, but without legitimate sourcing, the earliest variant of this yet located is a single quotation in Awakened India Vo. 99 (1994) p. 327, ascribed to Fr. Patrick Collins, University of Notre Dame, USA:

        Religion is for those who are afraid of going to hell. Spirituality is for those who know they have been there — perhaps through involvement with religion.

    The next variant located is ascribed to an anonymous member of Alcoholics Anonymous in Illuminating the Heart: Steps Toward a More Spiritual Marriage (1996) by Barbara G. Markway, p. 28:

        Religion is for people who are afraid of going to hell; spirituality is for those who have been there.

    A variant also occurs in The Higher Power of the Twelve-Step Program: For Believers & Non-Believers (2001), by Glenn F. Chesnut, Ch. 1 : Discovering a Higher Power:

        Religion is for people who're afraid of going to hell; twelvestep spirituality is for those who've been there."

I want to get some of these books, I think.

Britannica’s Curiosity Compass: 10 Ways to Improve Your Curiosity
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Very sparse on the words here, but Britannica gives some actionable tips on improving curiosity.

Seven Ways to Be More Curious | Psychology Today
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I've bought and begun reading the book mentioned in this article, and it seems like this article is simply a summary of the book - complete with intensive quotes (MOST of the article!)

I'm a little disappointed with the book so far - I'm extremely disappointed by this "article".

stephvee.ca - Why My Blog Doesn't Have a Comments Section
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"Is a comments section necessary on a blog in this day and age? I don't think so, and here's why."

I feel this, and I think if someone wants to respond to something I have to say, they can write it on their own blog, as many do quite often!

Why Orcs? Or, Why Do I Love Orcs? | Brackish Draught

"Beware the Orc, for this is what you become when you follow an evil lord into war!"

⛤Real Talk for the New Witch: What I Wish I Knew About Consistency⛤ – ✨⛤Spirit Bear Treasures⛤✨

A good piece about the importance of actual practice.

Learn In Public

A short but very inspiring post about something I believe to be a virtue I'd like to (and think in some ways I am) engage in.

What’s the Matter with Ebenezer Scrooge? - Front Porch Republic

An interesting look on the true greed of Ebenezer, and avoiding his fate.

Tools for discovering the IndieWeb – Andrew Doran

A few cool tools for finding new sites to read!

Blockin’ bots. — Ethan Marcotte

Good quick piece on how to block bots with .htaccess.

Eight Awarenesses — Home

An interesting take on recovery

My Sobriety Story with D.R. | Sober.com Newsletter

"the cure for addiction was connection"

"The hardest thing about recovery is that you have to look at why you drank and used drugs in the first place."

very moving piece from a fellow in recovery, good stuff.

Developers and technoableism

Really good "rant" about inaccessibility in tech spaces and how this affects disabled users.

6 Tips to Be More Curious in Life (and Why It's Important!)
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An article with active steps you can take to be more curious (that DOESN'T cite the Ian Leslie book!)

What Should You Put in Your Commonplace Book? | Pen With Paper

Another article by Shalveena about commonplace books and how best to use them.

I started keeping a commonplace book. This is how I keep it organised | by Shalveena Rohde | Nov, 2025 | Medium

Spoilers: They put a chronological table of contents in the back of the book. A really good idea!

How to Deal With Low Frustration Tolerance
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Another article on frustration tolerance.

Low Frustration Tolerance: 9 Tips to Build Your Resilience
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Reading this has given me some good ideas to improve my frustration tolerance, like practicing low-stress skills like knitting and making music. It has also helped me to realize my frustration tolerance may be higher than I believe, though I do still feel the need to continue working to improve it.

Tips for Non-Artists on Writing Your First Comic – Steve Lieber

"Learning to write prose is tough, and it can take years of struggle to grasp the basics. You have to understand construction, character, theme, pacing, the effects of word choice, the specifics of your subject and so much more. Learning to write a collaborative form like comics just adds new troubles and traps as you run into the difficulties inherent in the medium, or specific to the people you’re working with."

Advice from a pro about writing for comics.

A Brief History & Ethos of the Digital Garden

Great article on the concept of the digital garden. Not sure anything I'm doing technically qualifies, but I'm very inspired by the notion.

Dear Men, What is Preventing You from Looking Like…Aragorn? | Jared White

A relatively surface-level assessment of the gendered presentation of Aragorn as an example of a non-toxic masculinity.

5 Ways to Become a Better Listener (and Happier Person!)

“When you learn to be a better listener, you will hear things you may never have heard before. Here are 5 ways to become a better listener.”

Decent piece on being a better listener.

Red and Green Flags, According to Protagonists of Hallmark Christmas Movies - McSweeney’s Internet Tendency
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Oh McSweeney's, you've done it again.

Experts recommend 5 habits to increase your curiosity - Big Think
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This is another article on curiosity that mentions - and paraphrases from, without citing - Ian Leslie's Curious, a book I am still not sure I like.

Discovering the indieweb with calm tech

A useful duo of browser extensions I'm going to be using going forward! Thanks, Robert!

That Time I Tried Explaining HTML and CSS to My 5-Year Old Niece | CSS-Tricks
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This is a delightful look at HTML and CSS through the eyes of a child. Very fun read.

10 Types of Websites and What I'd Use to Build Them
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Nicola Mustone talks mostly about using Wordpress for various types of websites, but does advise some alternatives for certain types of content.

(I don't love the recommendation of Substack or the insistence on using Discord where a forum may be more applicable just because "people already live" there. For that matter, I don't really love Wordpress, but alas.)